Judging Another People is Much Easier than Judging Ourself. Why?
11:33:00 AM
Assalamu'alaikum Guys..
Every people have their own unique stories in their life which is absolutely different from others. We have different experience in our life. So I'm quite surprised that people nowadays are so easily to judge other people by only what they see in the social media platform.
In my opinion, every people in social media will only share and show what they want people to see about their life. If i want people see "this" so i will only post "this" and i wont post "that" and so do you. You will only post what do you want people to see, rite? So no wonder that if you only saw about happiness in their life because they only posting about what makes them happy. And because they don't want people to see their sorrow, they won't post about how breaking is heart, or how bad their day today because their boss mad at them. So if you see his or her post about their current life such as showing a new bag, phone, house, car or anything that she/he bought or his/her traveling experienced, or what they eat in the fancy restaurant or the job that she/he got, so what? We have no right to judge them "Ooh they are bragging now" or Ooh how pity they are so they need to show to the world that they have it" or something like that. Because we don't know their whole world! But if you are really happy being a judge (I know i can't forbid you to be one because it's kinda like our natural instinct as human), ooh please don't post your judgemental words in the social media UNLESS you are certain that you never do the same things, bragging about your life, though maybe it's not about MATERIAL thing but who knows, people see it as "bragging your life" as well.
Do you think that posting your beautiful, happy family isn't seen as bragging to people who don't have luxury of such perfection like yours? Things currently happening in your life that you post to show other people no matter what it is, may count as bragging, IF YOU PUT IT THAT WAY. Why don't you see it as they want to show other people about WHAT MAKES THEM HAPPY? Just like what you want to tell people with your post in social media.
So, don't forget to be happy with your own version of happiness and feel free to share it.
And please refrain yourself to post judgemental words if what makes them happy is different than yours :)
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